5 Steps to Navigate Diet and Body talk this Festive Season
As the festive season approaches, so does an abundance of food conversations, diet talk, and weight-related discussions. This period can be triggering, unsettling any peace you may have begun to build around your relationship with food and your body. Following last week's blog, Festive Eating Minus the Guilt, this week's focus is on strengthening resilience and managing diet-related conversations that commonly arise at family gatherings, festive events, and increasingly, on social media.
Here are some strategies to navigate challenging conversations:
1. Understanding Your Origin of Beliefs
Acknowledge that your beliefs about food and body image have deep roots, often stemming from childhood caregivers, societal influences, and cultural norms. Recognise that these narratives have been ingrained over the years and take time to unravel. Having compassion for yourself in acknowledging your origin story is the first step toward resilience.
2. Compassion Towards Others
Remember that those engaging in diet talk may not be aware of its impact. They might not be on the same journey as you toward a healthier relationship with food and body image. Try to remain compassionate as you navigate these conversations, keeping in mind that their comments often reflect their own struggles.
3. Prepared Responses and Boundaries
Prepare yourself with pre-thought responses for these discussions. For instance, if someone mentions a diet, you might remind yourself, Their solution may be dieting, but it doesn’t have to be mine. You might respond out loud with a neutral but firm statement such as, “I’m not focusing on diets this year, what’s new with you?
Establishing boundaries is critical. You have the right to step away from triggering conversations or clearly state that these topics are off-limits for you. Letting others know that you're not comfortable engaging in diet or weight-related discussions during festivities sets a clear precedent. If you’re a people pleaser, this might feel tough initially but remember: your well-being comes first.
4. Navigating Social Media: Diet Culture and Weight Loss Drugs
Social media can amplify the stress of the holiday season with its bombardment of messages about how to avoid holiday weight gain, New Year’s diet plans, or quick-fix weight loss solutions like Ozempic and other drugs.
How to Cope with Social Media Triggers:
Curate Your Feed: Unfollow accounts promoting diet culture or idealising unrealistic body standards. Instead, follow accounts that foster body neutrality, intuitive eating, and mental well-being.
Engage Mindfully: Limit your time on social media if you notice it’s affecting your mental health.
Challenge the Narrative: Remember that social media often shows a curated highlight reel, not the full story. Weight loss drugs like Ozempic are often presented without the nuanced discussions of their risks, side effects, or whether they’re appropriate for everyone.
5. Thought Work for Resilience
Reframing unhelpful thoughts and beliefs is an essential tool for managing triggering comments and situations. For instance:
Instead of thinking, They’re judging me for eating dessert, try reframing to, Their comments reflect their relationship with food, not mine.
Practice self-acceptance by repeating affirmations such as, My body deserves kindness and respect.
Working on these thoughts, fostering acceptance of your body and self, and building a resilient mindset can help you move through the season without being negatively impacted by the pressures of diet culture.
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