food anxiety

Time for a new approach to chocolate at Easter?

Easter chocolate, Easter binge

For those of you who find yourselves constantly thinking about food and what you should not be eating, Easter can be a tricky time. Chocolate eggs are all around; in every shop and TV commercial – and perhaps at home where you wouldn’t ordinarily have it.

Of course, chocolate is available all year round – and many of you may feel anxiety around it and other forbidden foods all the time. However, from working with hundreds of women who struggle with their relationship with food, I have witnessed that at this time of year (along with Christmas!) the stress surrounding food anxiety can go through the roof.

BUT IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY...

I've included a selection of strategies to choose from. Remember if you change nothing then, nothing will change, so call it an experiment and give some a try….

  1. Work on your ‘all or nothing’ approach to food – studies show that having exposure to foods regularly will reduce the power of that food and intense cravings for it- and you are much more likely to be able to eat it in a balanced way.

  2. If you enjoy dark chocolate, go for that over milk or white chocolate, and ideally something with a higher cocoa solid content. You will experience less of a blood sugar spike, meaning less cravings, plus more of the benefits that cocoa brings ( more on this shortly)

  3. Try eating your chocolate after a balanced protein and veg based meal– this again will reduce the resulting insulin spike, reduce cravings and be healthier all round.. If that’s not an option, try eating some with a little protein at the same time, such as a small handful of nuts.

  4. Avoid eating too much in one go with the intention of getting ‘rid’ of the chocolate sooner.  Eating a whole egg will lead to an energy crash and more cravings later on, not to mention, feelings of disappointment in yourself that you have ‘failed’ somehow.

  5. Plan so you can make helpful choices. Ensure you have plenty of balanced foods to hand. And its important not to allow yourself to get too hungry. Many of my clients admit that they thought being hungry was a good thing and tried hold off eating for as long as possible- often resulting in a binge later.

  6. Work on bringing consciousness to your decision to eat! If you are an emotional eater this will take some practice. Work on catching yourself before mindlessly reaching for the easter egg. Are you physically hungry? Or is there something else you are needing? If you do have a binge – avoid beating yourself up about it. Instead notice with curiosity what you think may have lead to it.

  7. Most importantly If you do want some chocolate, then decide to mindfully and with intent. Sit down, eat it slowly and take pleasure from it – because I can assure you there is nothing wrong with that.

  8. And don’t forget that chocolate does have health benefits too. Better quality chocolate has more, but even the processed stuff contains the polyphenols found in cocoa and carries some benefits for the microbiome residing in our gut. Cocoa in chocolate is packed with important minerals like iron, potassium, zinc and selenium. And did you know that chocolate also contains phenylethylamine; the same chemical your brain creates when you’re falling in love…?

If you struggle with your eating, don’t battle with it alone. It is possible to find food freedom and create balance in your mind and your life. I work with people just like you, who need a new approach  so they can reclaim their life.

Book in a complimentary call HERE to find out how I can help.


Please also come and join us in 
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Trapped in the diet cycle? Why 'all or nothing' thinking keeps you stuck

I help many women who are desperate to break free from dieting, having spent years or decades trapped in the cycle – exhausted by the headspace it consumes and misery it brings. They feel overwhelmed and confused not knowing how to eat without being on a diet and worry about what will become of their weight.

Many of my clients are overly restrictive with many fears and rules around food. Some find themselves binge eating or feeling out of control around foods. Others may be compelled to exercise excessively.

 

'ALL OR NOTHING' THINKING LIES AT THE HEART.....

All or nothing thinking lies at the heart of all of these distressing challenges and the inner dialogue is often 24/7.

This dichotomous thinking leads to attempts at restricting foods perceived as bad for their health or their weight. For most people this is unsustainable and often results in binging or emotionally eating the very same ‘forbidden’ foods.

The cycle goes like this; Eat the perceived ‘bad’ food, and automatic thoughts that follow are I’ve eaten really badly, I’m a bad person, I’m greedy, I have no willpower, I’ve blown it again. I need to start again tomorrow/ next week/ on Monday and so on.

Anxiety is often coupled with these thoughts. This may lead to skipping meals or severely restricting caloric intake. It may lead to a bout of punishing exercise to make up for ‘falling off the wagon’.

 

WHERE TO START...

If this is something you recognise with the way you approach your food, try removing the moralistic value from the foods. Yes, some foods are more helpful for our health than others but it is ok to have all types of foods some of the time.

Instead, focus instead on quality, nourishing foods you can add in to your diet. These will help you to feel better, lift your mood and stop punishing yourself.

When working with my clients we often work on visualising this work as a journey. I ask my clients to picture themselves on a cycle ride. Yes, they will hit bumps in the road. They may come off the bike every now and then – and that is normal and expected but that doesn’t take them back to the beginning of their journey. They just need to dust themselves off, get back on the bike and continue on.

If this s something you struggle with don’t battle with it alone. It is possible to find food freedom and create balance in your mind and your life.
I work with people just like you, who need a new approach  so they can reclaim their life.

Book in a complimentary call HERE to find out how I can help.


Please also come and join us in 
FOOD FREEDOM COLLECTIVE, FREE Facebook community- a safe place where you can feel supported without judgement, comparison and shame. I do live videos in the group each week to discuss a new topic to support you on your journey and I share, food ideas, motivation and supportive practices daily – it’s free to join!

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